psql incantation fixes

.gitea/workflows/tests.yaml

@@ -82,9 +82,9 @@ jobs:
         run: ping -c 3 db
 
       - name: postgres service check
-        run: psql -u ${{ secrets.DB_USER }} -D ${{ secrets.DB_NAME }} -h ${{ secrets.DB_HOST }} "SELECT * FROM vods;"
         env:
           PGPASSWORD: ${{ secrets.DB_PASS }}
+        run: psql --host=${{ secrets.DB_HOST }} --port=5432 --dbname=${{ secrets.DB_NAME }} --username=${{ secrets.DB_USER }} --list
 
       - name: Setup FFmpeg
         uses: FedericoCarboni/setup-ffmpeg@v3